Walking along the path into divorce or a break-up is not something that is planned for or often anticipated. The added layer to this is when the seeming cause of the end of the relationship is infidelity and consequential betrayal.
Often the “other” person is looked upon as being a better version, be it younger, thinner, prettier, more handsome or having an element that seemed to be lacking in the marriage or relationship. It is easy to assume it is because of sex and sexual satisfaction when this was the action that was taken. However, it is rarely ever about sex.
Sex itself is a huge topic that when linked into the intent and reasoning of the individual it can actually become a tool, rather than expression. When the need becomes external for sexual gratification it is a reflection of an internal conflict externalized through the unhappiness in the marriage or relationship.
This is not or ever a black and white situation but one thing that is more common than not is the use of sexual gratification when there are issues within a marriage or relationship.
The true and real cause tends to be related to a disconnection and following a lack of intimacy. This is not sex however, rather a human, emotional need that is being ignored. There are many layers to this and the causes that led up to the result of sex acts outside of the relationship and the break-up as a consequence. More often than not it has nothing to do with sex and everything to do with the person.
To not take this personally reflects whether that disconnect was mutual or due to lacking the desire to connect beyond being glorified flat mates. One person’s actions are a result of their own internal turmoil; however within a relationship this can significantly impact and create a chain reaction of events, thought patterns and inevitable outcomes.
Sex is a natural and essential part of life, marriage and a relationship, but that doesn’t mean it is the actual driver into infidelity or the cause of some the break-up.
When the person is honest with themselves the cause of the break-up was more than sex.
ABOUT THE WRITER:
Hally Rhiannon-Nammu is an internationally renowned Holistic Sexual Therapist, Hally Rhiannon-Nammu, is now blessing us with the opportunity to access and experience her extensive knowledge and talent in Spiritual Sexuality. As a practicing Shaman and Spiritual Guru from ancient traditions, Hally uses her unique connection and elaborate skills to enable others to experience the truly magnificent energetic alignment that comes from engaging Spiritual Sexual energy.
Hally Rhiannon-Nammu extensive qualifications include:
• Master of Metaphysical and Ancient Energetic Traditions
• Sacred Sexual Energy Master
• Reiki Master and Vibrational Medicine Healer
• Behavioural Change Disciplines including NLP, Timeline Therapy, Life Coaching, Performance Coaching, Behavioural Profiling, Holistic Counselling and Spiritual Alignment
• Masters in Writing, author with 7 books and columnist for four well known publications
• Professional Member of Psychic Association and is renowned globally for her unique and comprehensive skill set in all things energetic, paranormal and spiritual.
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