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Walking along the path into divorce or a break-up is not something that is planned for or often anticipated. The added layer to this is when the seeming cause of the end of the relationship is infidelity and consequential betrayal.

Often the “other” person is looked upon as being a better version, be it younger, thinner, prettier, more handsome or having an element that seemed to be lacking in the marriage or relationship. It is easy to assume it is because of sex and sexual satisfaction when this was the action that was taken. However, it is rarely ever about sex.

Sex itself is a huge topic that when linked into the intent and reasoning of the individual it can actually become a tool, rather than expression. When the need becomes external for sexual gratification it is a reflection of an internal conflict externalized through the unhappiness in the marriage or relationship.

This is not or ever a black and white situation but one thing that is more common than not is the use of sexual gratification when there are issues within a marriage or relationship.

The true and real cause tends to be related to a disconnection and following a lack of intimacy. This is not sex however, rather a human, emotional need that is being ignored. There are many layers to this and the causes that led up to the result of sex acts outside of the relationship and the break-up as a consequence. More often than not it has nothing to do with sex and everything to do with the person.

To not take this personally reflects whether that disconnect was mutual or due to lacking the desire to connect beyond being glorified flat mates. One person’s actions are a result of their own internal turmoil; however within a relationship this can significantly impact and create a chain reaction of events, thought patterns and inevitable outcomes.

Sex is a natural and essential part of life, marriage and a relationship, but that doesn’t mean it is the actual driver into infidelity or the cause of some the break-up.

When the person is honest with themselves the cause of the break-up was more than sex.

 

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ABOUT THE WRITER:

post jan 23 bHally Rhiannon-Nammu is an internationally renowned Holistic Sexual Therapist, Hally Rhiannon-Nammu, is now blessing us with the opportunity to access and experience her extensive knowledge and talent in Spiritual Sexuality. As a practicing Shaman and Spiritual Guru from ancient traditions, Hally uses her unique connection and elaborate skills to enable others to experience the truly magnificent energetic alignment that comes from engaging Spiritual Sexual energy.

Hally Rhiannon-Nammu extensive qualifications include:
• Master of Metaphysical and Ancient Energetic Traditions
• Sacred Sexual Energy Master
• Reiki Master and Vibrational Medicine Healer
• Behavioural Change Disciplines including NLP, Timeline Therapy, Life Coaching, Performance Coaching, Behavioural Profiling, Holistic Counselling and Spiritual Alignment
• Masters in Writing, author with 7 books and columnist for four well known publications
• Professional Member of Psychic Association and is renowned globally for her unique and comprehensive skill set in all things energetic, paranormal and spiritual.

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Understanding Sexual Energy By Hally Rhiannon-Nammu

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“Sexual Energy is part of our life force energy. By aligning Self with Sexual energy it allows the person to restore natural energetic balance.”

Understanding-Sexual-Energy

The amazing part when working with and considering on being aligned to sexual energy is that in essence it has little to do with sex, as such.It is more prevalent to say that it is to do with the combination and the part of the body where the feminine and masculine energies become one. Then coupled with this is that it is also the area where creativity and passion stem from.

This area is better known as the base chakra. It is an extremely powerful area because all of these core fundamentals meet in this one area. It is a source of great power and as such, it can be easily misunderstood.

Consider that sexual energy is the combination of all of this coming together into one stream of energy. When it is used and aligned with an individual it has the power to create some of the most beautiful, most passionate things requiring nothing more than breathing.  This is because when in natural state and everything flows, communicates and engages as it does there is no effort.

Consider the flow of a river. When it has been blocked by a dam, bits and pieces of water trickle through so the river receives a taste of the water that is being held back without really become part of or submerging into the essence and greatness of the river as a whole.

Sexual energy works similarly. Throughout life, the beliefs many have, the way many are brought up, the essence of the energy is blocked, like a dam, and some creativity comes through, some feminine energy comes through as does masculine but it may not be at the same time so it tends to feel inconsistent or even seem out of balance.

However, when the dam is removed (ironically man made) then the energy has the ability to flow to all of the areas, connecting to all of the areas and enabling this one very important part of oneself to be complete. It is then that the energy can be used in its pure state.

The sexual part is more than sex but sex in itself is like the icing on the most perfect cake – simply highlights its already perfect state.

When thinking about sexual energy, break it down to fundamentals – feminine energy, masculine energy, creative energy, passionate energy and the trickle of core energy that makes up the rest of the person. Notice how each one varies from the other yet, complement each section. Notice also, when one is more engaged than the other or what influences one over the other.

Sometimes it is a matter of taking one beautiful deep breath and directing it to all of those areas, instructing it to flow and focus feeling the warmth and connectedness that follows.